ok so this is probably a somewhat pointless post, but i wanted to share my success story since i had been recieving advice from the forums about my problem (i have never been able to orgasm)
i finally got to see my boyfriend (who now lives in a different state) and the first thing he did when i arrived was buy me a vibrator :D
the first couple of times with it i did not orgasm, but it did help me find that there are places on my clitoris that feel good. something i thought was very important because all attempts in the past had led me to believe that no pleasure would ever come from my clit...so i was finally able to let my guy go down on me, and tell him where it felt good. also, i was finally able to get wet on my own, instead of using lube (i have yet to find a lube that does not burn like hell :( ) and after this i finally had my first orgasms :D
and also on this trip i finally learned to deep throat...yay go me! :)
As with everything else - practice makes perfect!!!!
LOL
And practicing has never been so much FUN!!
From all the times you have commented on the "failure" both alone or w/your partner; CONGRADULATIONS!
Why do you think it finally happened? I.e. Were you trying to hard? Did you just finally let go? Wrong technique? etc.
Excellent!
May you have many, many more!!
:) thanks everyone for all the help
Let us know when you're ready to move onto multiples and ejaculatory orgasms!
haha well my first session i was able to orgasm twice...but i get the feeling they could be stronger...guess i'll have to keep working on it :)
Congratulations! It just gets easier from here on out. Cheers to finally reaching the start of your destination - it gets even better with time. ;)
I know just how you feel...up until about a year ago, I had never had an orgasm in my life!! How frustrating it is when everything always "feels good" but thats it! I finally figured out what works for me too, and am slightly addicted to it LOL now its just making them better...stronger & stuff and let me tell you, with lots of practice...things can get gooood =)
Congratulations
Once you learn, it gets better and better. You have many more to experience. Good for you!