The Ritz, huh?

[SIZE="6">WOW! What great suggestions![/SIZE]

(I doubt this would work at the local Motel 6, although, maybe not.)

Sometimes we really do team up nicely.

[quote=curious_woman;188902]Nah, we put a towel underneath ;).[/quote]

Gotcha CW!

Also, to the OP some of the "ideas" Doc has you can ask the staff to do for you such as the rose petals & chocolates. When I stayed at the Ritz, if they knew this was a "special evening" for you both, without prompting they put fresh rose petals in the shape of a heart on the bed, send chocolate covered Strawberries to the room before we arrived, and had a bath drawn & ready with the rose petals & scented rose-water already in place. And they had an aromatic candle next to the bed light, along with two robes one for each. Check out the hotel & their accomodations (and prices for these services), there was no charge for any and if it's costly do it yourself then! And the breakfast in bed was included!

[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;188764]
In and of itself this is OK; however, lets get terms and facts straight.

DO at least half an hour of necking, petting, heavy petting, and just generally making out and fooling around (longer if convenient) before ever getting to the FOREPLAY. There are a couple of good Sticky posts on the importance of all this.[/QUOTE]

sorry let me be more clear. i meant there should be an hour minimum between the first kiss and you entering her. more is better for your first night together. remember, girls like as much foreplay as possible (at least mine does). obviously some times you just want to get down to business; your first night together is not one of them.
sorry for any misunderstanding. basically what im saying is an hour minimum from start to sex

Curbing your mind in bed? HUH? What does that mean? Why is spending a night together any different then when you normally have sex with her? I'd say put nice good sheets on the bed, get a nice bar of soap and a clean towel for her if she is sleeping over.

i wud say just to make her feel special. Plenty of kissin and feeling her before anything else! slowly getting into things will help her to relax and highten her pleasure!
Just make sure she wants you as much as you want her and have a good night! :p

xx

make it sensual. scented candles work great. take it slow and easy, not like a quickie. you got all night, so enjoy it. do at least an hour of foreplay before the main event. when you're finally inside her, thrust in slowly and gently. look in her eyes while you do it. just make it overall as sensual and special for her as you can.
post-sex, dont wash up. assuming you cum in her of course. just fall asleep in each other's arms

Sera's soap suggestion is great. Let me just expand on this. Instead of a bar of soap, use mildly scented liquid body wash soap and your hands--no wash cloth.

Fill the bathtub with warm water, soak and talk for awhile, perhaps enjoying some light caressing, keeping her upper body warm by drizzling water over her shoulders. After awhile, either use the body wash while seated, or, stand up nd take a shower. Wash each other all over using your hands to do the washing. (DO NOT insert a finger into her vagina if it has any soap/wash on it.) Then, rinse each other off, towel dry with pats (no rubbing) and go off to the bed.

Have a dry bath towel spread on the bed for her to lie upon. Give her a massage, tip to toe, front and back, then continue by transitioning to an erotic massage.

[QUOTE=7inches4u] do at least an hour of foreplay before the main event. [/QUOTE]

In and of itself this is OK; however, lets get terms and facts straight.

DO at least half an hour of necking, petting, heavy petting, and just generally making out and fooling around (longer if convenient) before ever getting to the FOREPLAY. There are a couple of good Sticky posts on the importance of all this.

just remember,,lots of cuddling before and especially AFTER...resist the feeling to fall asleep and continuously give her little back rubs, total body caressing...even if you suffer from lack of sleep...she'll doze off with the little touches..:)

[QUOTE=sera300;188888]Okay! But do you sleep in the wet spot? LOL![/QUOTE]

Nah, we put a towel underneath ;).

[QUOTE=kon;188846]thanks for advice guys.

1. this will be hotel action so not really much for me to set up as for the scene. but i can make things special for whole night before we even get to the hotel. maybe dinner, movie, bar etc etc[/QUOTE]

2. Let's see how you might liven things up.

a.) visit the room before the date begins and lay rose petals from door to bed
b.) place an expensive chocolate mint on her pillow
c.) fill the bathtub with very warm water if you can get there shortly before going to the room. You can cool the water making it comfortable when the two of you arrive

d.) if the room has a DVD player, rent a movie. NO PORN. here are two ideas: "40 Days and 40 Nights" and one I just mentioned: "The Road To Wellville". Other movies with a romantic or romantic comedy are fine, also.

e.) arrange for breakfast in bed

f.) Lay your vibrator, furry mitten, and bottle of massage oil out beforehand for her to discover upon walking closer to the bed.

g.) use your imagination to add to this list

Gotcha. Take her out before, treat her like a princess be happy & romantic, the rest will follow. Cuddle & snuggle afterwards and fall asleep together. One poster said don't hit the rest room to clean up after...nothing is worse, as a female, to have a serious case of "drippy's", to sleep in the wet spot for the night and to wake up sticky...makes me cranky! Order room service in the am for breakfast and enjoy it in bed!

[QUOTE=sera300;188884]Gotcha. Take her out before, treat her like a princess be happy & romantic, the rest will follow. Cuddle & snuggle afterwards and fall asleep together. One poster said don't hit the rest room to clean up after...nothing is worse, as a female, to have a serious case of "drippy's", to sleep in the wet spot for the night and to wake up sticky...makes me cranky! Order room service in the am for breakfast and enjoy it in bed![/QUOTE]

I like the drippys :(.

[quote=curious_woman;188887]I like the drippys :(.[/quote]

Okay! But do you sleep in the wet spot? LOL!

[quote=dancingdoc2;188959]The Ritz, huh?

[SIZE=6]WOW! What great suggestions![/SIZE]

(I doubt this would work at the local Motel 6, although, maybe not.)

Sometimes we really do team up nicely.[/quote]

Spent a great deal of time traveling over the past 2 1/2 years with my ex-fiance, stayed with the Ritz, became a "regular fixture" there. Some of these may be difficult to pull off by the staff depending on the hotel but the accouterments can be duplicated anywhere by the person! It takes some work but ends nicely. Women love the pampering, as do the men when they give in to the luxury! You have some of these nice places where you are in Cali! And it's worth a stay for a special event or anniversary...or just "because"! Ahhh...romance, it's a wonderful thing when with your special person!

Keep in mind, these can also be accomplished in one's home, adding a bottle of Brut Champagne is a bonus! :)

Sera, Sacramento, being the big cowtown it is, also has a couple of adult motels. Lake Tahoe's Stateline has a couple also that we've been to. Water beds, ceiling mirrors, heart-shaped bathtubs, etc. These are nice facilities, not seedy at all.

[quote=dancingdoc2;189004]Sera, Sacramento, being the big cowtown it is, also has a couple of adult motels. Lake Tahoe's Stateline has a couple also that we've been to. Water beds, ceiling mirrors, heart-shaped bathtubs, etc. These are nice facilities, not seedy at all.[/quote]

They can be a blast...we have the Poconos! :)