Being a male, it has always intrigued me to know how a girl was talked into, pursueded, call it what you want, giving her 1st BJ. Now don't think that I am a prude, because I love getting them, but telling someone, "hey, why don't you suck on this", just doesn't add up. You can ask how I felt the 1st time I went down on a girl, and I can tell you I did it partly because I thought I would "return the favor". I just want to know how the females feel about it. Why they did it, how they did it, etc. Were they "told" how to do it? Step by step? I hope that makes sense. Thanks
Mon, 07/16/2007 - 01:33
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1st Blow Job
haha well... I gotta say my first time I gave my bf a blow job was my first bj i ever gave and it was great!
Anywho - i wouldn't put it as 'talking' a girl into it... what led me to the idea of giving oral was that my guy loved and still loves to go down on me and I thought that it was just curtousy to do the same - plus - i am very open to alot of things and I wanted to know what it's like...
Not many girls are like me tho - some will take a bit of coaxing to go downstairs on a guy... for me - well, when i was presented the oppertunity i all of a sudden got a lil scared - like omg - what do i do? what does he like? all those thoughts. But yeah - you do have it right that going for a direct approach like "suck on my dick" may not appeal to every woman out there. If you want to, try beating around the bush, saying like "HAve you ever thought of giving a guy a blow job?" or something like that... give her little hints and point her in the direction that you might want her to venture there. OR... if you haven't and your up to it - try giving her oral and then maybe she might want to return the favor - haha that's what happened to me :p lol - but personally - i like to give bj's to my guy cause i know that he likes it and i kno what's in store for me later on in the night haha
hopefully this has shedded a little bit of light for you.
~Wendy~
haha well the first time i fooled around with my current bf i mentioned that i wish i knew how to give a good blowjob LOL. he then pleaded for me to practice on him :o i was afraid though, because i didn't want to be terrible at it...but he finally convinced me after i made him promise he wouldnt look.
later i found out that he thought i was LYING when i told him i had never done it before :eek: