My fiancee and I want to have a three-some. He isn't forcing, I WANT to, and I am not forcing him into a position he is uncomfortable with. We've set some ground rules for the first time, I have to trust the woman, and I have the final say but of course he has to approve her. And of course she has to be clean and on birth control. Some other rules, to keep our emotional bond strong:
1. No cumming inside her, I just don't feel comfortable about it...its mine!
2. Make sure neither of us feels "left out" ex. at no time will one of us be just watching, we'll always be involved some how. Like if I'm going down on her, he'll penetrate me from behind...or if hes fingering her I'll suck his cock, that sort of thing
3. Not very much penetration in her, like not enough for him or her to finish, it ties in with the first rule...I have a feeling I'll be a little more comfortable about it in the moment...secretly I find it a bit hot the idea of watching him **** someone.
4. If either of us feel uncomfortable we'll stop, and we'll make sure the third understands this before we have the three some.
5. We both have "goals" we want to do, and we've each agreed on one of our own, and one we both want (I want to go down on her, he wants to rub and slide in for a few seconds as a tease, we both want him to cum on myself and the girl, then we all lick it off each other)
We've talked about it A LOT and it is something we'll do eventually. I think our emotional bond and love is strong enough to separate sex from our relationship. We even said we might find a female friend to do it with on a regular basis if we enjoy.
