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Let me answer your question in the following order:

Re: Intercourse-- You are receiving the type of stimulation that are accustomed to when masturbating. In addition, you are probably at or near peak when beginning to stroke.

Re: Masturbation-- Shortly after learning to masturbate, each of us establishes a set routine that is unique to each of us. If we/she varies the method too much then we will either not climax or it will be less than desired. There are two other contributing factors; first, if you are ignoring your internal feedback then your inner self will take over and push you beyond the point of no return; second, if you do not recognize those sensations that present themselves immediately prior to a climax, then it will occur by sneaking up on you.

Re: Oral stimulation-- This produces more intense sensations than just stroking. The reason this is so is because as nice as these feelings are they are not the same as how we've conditioned ourself to bring about an orgasm. Because they are not, the intensity of the sensations as well as our pleasure continues to build the more oral stimulation we receive--until we cry "Uncle" and have to stop because we can't stand (lie!) still any more.

There are two ways to turn this around; first, stop and let the intensity subside to a level below what is required to bring about a climax and then continue by hand; second, combine oral stimulation with the hand for what I refer to as the "Dynamic Duo". The oral portion will intensify the sensations while the hand job will trigger the climax.