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Dazed, there is a full spectrum of sexuality. You are thinking in terms of gay-bi-straight as the only options, when in reality there are many in-betweens and shades of gray. It's not like you either are equally attracted to both sexes or you are gay or you are straight. I've never been in a relationship with a girl, though I have fooled around with girls. In general, I think girls bodies are more attractive than male bodies. Walking down the street I see more women I would want to hook up with than males. Yet I am very happily in a long term relationship with my boyfriend, and we want to get married. I am very attracted to him. If someone asked, I'd say that I'm bi. But that doesn't change the fact that I am happily in a relationship with a man. My best advice is not to limit yourself. Don't worry about what title to give your sexuality. If it feels right to be with a woman - do it. And if it feels right to be with a man - do it. It sounds to me like you are attracted to both sexes, so I think it is fair to say that you are bi or bi-curious. In five years, you may find that you are only interested in dating men. If that's the case, you can say you're straight then. In the meantime just worry about what feels good in the moment.
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