Asked another way, "
if I like certain things and pursue them will this make me Gay"?
This is a question in either form that women and especially fellas occasionally wonder and worry about. One of several such concerns is whether having an interest in and then actually touching, fingering, rimming, or penetrating the anus means that we are or will become Gay. In addition, some women are concerned about performing and/or receiving oral stimulation of each others genitals, usually Fellacio in which she stimulates her man's penis using her mouth, lips and tongue often in conjunction with her hand(s).
Sex play and arousal, touching, kissing, and, caressing are
human endeavors and activities and are not determined by or governed by the gender of the person we find ourself attracted to. In other words, our sexual orientation, meaning the gender(s) of the people we tend to find an attraction to are separate and apart from what a person likes, dislikes, or is willing to explore when it comes to being aroused and in arousing our partner. The same goes for viewing X-rated movies. Men and women are aroused by thoughts, sights, smells, and touch. What sorts of stimuli arouse you? As a guy, I can confirm that arousal happens from passing an attractive person on the street, seeing an alluring mannequin in a store, looking at a model in an ad/catalog, thinking about doing something randy, certain smells that remind me of past experiences, and so much more. How many women are turned on by romance novels and steamy scenes in a movie or an alluring billboard ad?
The anus outside and just inside is richly endowed with lots of sensitive nerve endings that bring pleasure whenever they are touched, yet they really turn on and become highly reactive after we become extremely aroused. These sensations contribute to and greatly intensify those that come from other caresses going on at the same time. These sensations also help trigger orgasms or an elusive climax, such as the second or third in a multiple string.
"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.
As I write this I am trying to think of activities that are the exclusive province of homosexuality. Which of the following activities do you consider Gay, Lesbian, or Straight?
* (G L S) Fingering the inside of a vagina
* (G L S) Inserting a toy inside the vagina
* (G L S) Fingering the outside of the vaginal opening
* (G L S) Titillating the outside surface of the anus
* (G L S) Fingering the sphincter muscles just inside
* (G L S) Rubbing the clitoris
* (G L S) Gripping the shaft of a penis and stroking
* (G L S) Grazing the shaft with a lubricated and light touch
* (G L S) Titillating the glans
* (G L S) Massaging the prostate
* (G L S) Caressing and fingering the breast(s), nipples, and, areolas
* (G L S) Kissing the lips
* (G L S) Kissing and caressing the skin all over
* (G L S) Stroking the hair on the head
* (G L S) Fondling the scrotum and testicles
* (G L S) Fingering and massaging the labia majora and minora
* (G L S) Licking, lapping, sucking the labia
* (G L S) Licking, lapping, sucking the clitoris
* (G L S) Licking, lapping, sucking the penis
* (G L S) Licking, lapping, sucking the glans
* (G L S) Licking, lapping, sucking the scrotum
* (G L S) Licking, lapping, sucking the nipple and areola
* (G L S) Licking, lapping, sucking the fingers and/or toes
* (G L S) Rear Entry
* (G L S) Cowgirl
* (G L S) 69
* (G L S) Wheelbarrow
* (G L S) Bodyguard
* (G L S) Arch
* (G L S) Butterfly
* (G L S) Deep Stick
* (G L S) Sitting Bull
* (G L S) Spooning
(See Home Page for illustrations of each position)
Tally: ___G ___L ___S ___Proclivity
If you checked any of the items in the list then it seems to me that you have a prejudicial and myopic view of human sexual behavior. As important is that you do not have an understanding of sexual orientation.
http://dictionary.reference.com/brow...%20orientation
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_orientation