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Let alone two people in their 60's... Why not admit that you're just a curious teenager?

First, it's called herpes, not herbies. And since you "both" already "have it", there's no need to worry about when to have sex or using condoms (unless you're worried about pregnancy at your "ages"). It's not like you can contract it again...

You don't get HIV from anal sex unless you do it with someone that already has HIV. And I fail to see how a woman having anal sex with a man would become gay - it's a heterosexual act. You and your lover can do whatever both of you are comfortable doing with each other.