[oberon]

Good points, Sweet Jamie Lee.

I'll admit that just because I'm a gay man that doesn't mean that I understand bisexuals or transgendered people. While I AM accepting of both that doesn't mean that I automatically understand what they are going through or their feelings.

I'll also admit that as a gay man I would be very hesitant to become involved with a bisexual man. I could deal with a "one night stand" situation, but I don't think that I'd be comfortable in a relationship. I'd always feel that there was a part of his desire that I could not fulfill. I'm not very big on sharing a person I'm involved with so I would not be happy with an open relationship.

This is another reason that it is important for gay and bisexual people to be out and open about who they are. Honesty in a relationship is too important and when people aren't honest they end up hurting someone.