exactly...focus on her, if you finish fast big deal, practice makes perfect
. youll get the hang of it. I mean im still learning the ropes and my stamina is lowering a bit.
Look at it this way though, would you rather do foreplay for a 2 hours, then have sex for 2 minutes and both you and her cum? or would you rather it be a case of she is pleased but you dont actually finsih while having sex? Thats how it was for me the first like 2 maybe 3 times. I actually would have to pull out and she would finish me with oral because i just couldnt seem to finish.
Now I try to pay a bit more attention to myself and I have managed to cum through intercourse (although it still is difficult because she becomes too sensitive at times)