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There is hard, there is somewhat (un) hard, there is flaccid (limp).
What I got from the o/ps post is that he looses the rock hard erection and while still (partially) erect, becomes much less hard, although, not limp, all before climaxing.
Some of us do loose an erection after climaxing. The typical refractory period lasts between ten and thirty minutes after which we are good to go, again.
What I don't understand is why guys become so concerned and worried about their virility when they they loose an erection. For those of you reading this who are in this worrisome state, don't you get it? "It" is all in the fun and games that are added to the session in order to get hard again. Focus on the added enjoyment and much less the cause. Instead of becoming upset that an erection goes (partially) away, embrace the value of this long term.
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Life without dancing?
I don't think so......
The feet may learn the steps;
yet only the spirit can dance!
Dancing is the fastest way to get
a girl alone and into your arms in public.
The Tango smolders and burns. It ignites the
heart, the soul, and yes, the libido.
Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass,
it's about learning how to Dance in the Rain!
Dance as if nobody is watching.
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