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Another way to think about this term is in how I recommend people go about spanking who are interested in this. You can spank vigorously and with force and you can give one spank at a time both causing pain, discomfort, red skin, and worse. You can also "spank" by going thru the motions and giving the illusion of the act by pulling your punches and going "through the motions" so to speak and not causing much if any discomfort, just a mild sting.

It's not just women who can be hurt or injured from over enthusiastic sex. Men have been known to suffer fractured penises!, also. So, as president JFK once said: "Proceed with all possible 'vigah'", and have fun, just maintain the presence of mind to not get too carried away. Did you ever hear the ol' saying "Wham--Bam--thank you, M'am?" What we usually think when hearing this is that sex was quick and perhaps somewhat self centered and cold. Another way to look at this saying is "Wham!" and "Bam!" meaning rough sex. Another example is that while a lot of us enjoy strong forceful thrusts, it is quite another act to do them callously and to manhandle, or subject our partner to physical violence.