[EvilEvilKitten]

Thinking of sex as being "precious" causes many problems. Sex is great, fun and brings people together - all good things. But when you begin making it out to be "more" than that, then you run into problems - such as murdering over infidelity. Then you get jealousy, possessiveness, mistrust - the list goes on. All very unattractive and destructive emotions that eventually destroy people.

You cannot control any one else's behavior but you can control your reactions to that behavior.

Some men simply choose to not deal with the issues in their marriage re: sex and so they go elsewhere. To most "playful" women, married men are the perfect playtoys because they cannot "fall in love" and they "have to go home" - this way they do not have to "buy the pig just to have a little sausage". They are not interested in keeping him - they just want to borrow him for a while. Single men might want a relationship and she just may not want that at this time. Divorced men might have too much baggage. Thus married men become more attractive - they fit her agenda.