[Ducy]

Nonsense...your right...number four is really really odd...for that matter maybe the ladies can give their men some laxatives so that the penis is a little easier to deal with when going in and out lol.

I give you props though....some interesting pointers that I have never heard.

Maybe a few things that you would like to add...I know these things simply because my girlfriend and what seemed to help her:

1...You have to want to have sex...obviously...but you have to want it to happen. My girlfriend really really wanted to have sex....(I’m 6 around and I had to be careful cuz sometimes 1 finger would be too much)...I guess you could consider her being horny, but idk all I know is she was really anxious (in a god way) and she was able to handle it no problem.

2...If it is still uncomfortable after he has been in for a bit....don’t be afraid to stop him....once again...it was a bit uncomfortable for my girlfriend when I first went in...so I pulled out, we made out a bit....and then we tried again...this time....no pain and she came twice.

3...Don’t feel like your gonna look ridiculous cuz you don’t know what your doing...of course you have know idea what your doing....but remember we have a few million years of instincts pushing us...I mean hey cave men didn’t have porn, or sex ed to give us an idea of what it is like. (Even though porn is a bit on the extreme side of a teaching spectrum but you get the idea.)

4...This ties in to 3 but for the guys....GUYS....COMPLIMENT YOUR GIRLFRIEND...DONT be like oh your pussy is so tight or anything like that...help her get rid of her inhibitions, tell her she looks amazing, if she is on top, tell her when it feels good. if it is hers or both of yours first time...DONT expect to try anything advanced just things like, missionary and inverted missionary. Luckily for me and my girlfriend we were both virgins, so neither of us had expectations or knew what to expect, so it was a good (albeit a quite amusing) learning experience.

5...Ladies...and Gentlemen....don’t be offended if your partner suggests something such as moving a different way...or telling you to slow down or change your rhythm....I mean hey sex is not only about having fun and pleasing each other, but its about learning about your partners body...their likes and dislikes...Do you really think that a great chef makes an amazing dish on his first try? no...it takes time, experience, and changing or adding ingredients...a pinch more foreplay a bit less tongue etc etc.

6...use two types of contraceptives....condoms and BC are the best...but spermicide and stuff works too...Worse case scenario you could use the morning after pill (but its not always the smartest thing)....this will help ease your fears of pregnancy, since after my first time me and my girl were stressed up until the second day of her period (her first was really bad and a lot different from usual so we had to wait to see if it evened out.)

Don’t mean to take your post pretty...but I figured since it is a thread on help, I figured it would be good if you had some extra perspectives.