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So am I correct in assuming you're still a virgin either to gay or straight sex?
As far as getting married because "heterosexuality is the right thing to do", that's about the lamest excuse I can imagine for potentially screwing up another person's life. You obviously understand your sexual leanings are not toward straight sex, why would you want to marry and impair another person's joy in an extremely important part of a relationship? If you decide to persue that, are you going to be honest with the woman beforehand and tell them you're most likely gay and are looking only for a plantonic relationship in which (most likely) you will be going elsewhere for your sexual needs? There might be women out there willing to make that sacrifice but they're few and far between.
As Sera said, live the fantasies that compel you and be true to yourself.
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