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Poppy,
That is likely an orgasm - in its present form for you. You can learn to control this. I would recommend that you seek out a qualified, female sex therapist. Most of us have a similar reaction sometimes. The sstimulation is just too intense and we lose the good response.
It is possible that easing off in pace or pressure as you approach will help. The clitoris actually does react into our bodies as orgasm approaches to protect itself. Men, commonly, go digging after it or we sometimes overdo it for ourselves at this point. Try clitical.com for alternative masturbation techniques but if this has been going on for long, you may find it more useful to ask a therapist what can be done.
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Brandye
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