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OK, this one's not too hard to figure out... Brandye picked up on it. Lilashley is not actually little, nor is she an Ashley - "she's" a big John looking to get his rocks off by pretending to be a young girl. Probably figures some young boy is going to be interested in e-mailing what he thinks is a girl around his own age, and all of the sudden that chat turns into a "wanna meet me in person?" scenario.

Gotta give those online predators some points for learning from Dateline and trying to be creative.

OK, so what was the original question again? Something about virgins having sex?

4 months? Is that really enough time to determine that you love each other deeply? Obviously no one on here is going to change your mind about it, but think about that for a minute.

As far as finding a time and a place to do it - with all of that supervision breathing down your neck, I assume that both of your homes are out of the question. So that leaves: Abandoned buildings, secluded areas of the park/woods, gas station restrooms, etc. Sorry, but I don't think you're in the position to be choosy and romantic unless you feel like waiting until you are no longer your parents' property.

Honestly from your post it really doesn't sound like you're ready to me, but do what you feel is right. I'm of the opinion that getting the first time over with as soon as possible is the way to go because, as EEK would say, virginity is a handicap. But it seems like things are going against the both of you having sex at the moment...