The following information was omitted from the "Kissing and Caressing" article due to the maximum word length imposed by the Board's software. Perhaps now is a good time to add more.
Kissing-beyond the basics--
Kissing the lips is just a single aspect of what can be done. A person's entire skin is an erogenous zone. As your hands roam and caress her face, neck, torso, arms, fingers, legs, feet, toes, back, and butt, you can also have your lips follow along, kissing and brushing the lips as you go (and, as you progressively undress her).
Learn where her hot spots (and yours) are. Kissing and sucking fingers and toes can often be very erotic. Did you know that a very large area of the brain is devoted just to the nerves in fingers? Lots and lots of time can be spent and devoted to kissing each other. The pay off is heightened awareness, sensitivity, plus an increase in passion and "heat".
Here, and in addition to the basics in the first article, overly wet and slobbery kisses are not generally welcomed, particularly with a bourgeoning relationship. Where wet kisses, lips, and tongue can be beneficial is when arousing her skin. Just use common sense and don't think that just because you may like sloppy kisses, she will.
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So, fellas, how do you know she would like that first good night kiss?
Answer: When she lingers in the car or on her doorstep and when she looks expectantly and with interest into your eyes. More often than not, this is a pretty good sign.
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More: When she is standing very closely in front of you, raises up on her tiptoes, and looks longingly into your eyes.
This is a sign you definitely do not want to misread.
More on French Kissing--
The tongue can now be brought into play with or without exchanging breath or saliva. I personally believe people should explore each other with only their tongues and not the other stuff, but this is just me. If you want to exchange liquids and gasses, make sure your breath is fresh and that you do not try to drown her in saliva!
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The tongue can play a magical part in arousing a person. You can use it to explore your lover's lips and mouth. Moreover, you can use your tongues playfully, touching and darting back and forth between each other's mouth.
Begin by letting your partner's tongue enter your mouth and explore around. There are lots of variations to the theme so just play with this and have fun. As s/he withdraws, follow with yours. Flit and flirt are the intent of this erotic game. Tease each other!
Envision her mouth as her vagina and your exploring tongue as your penis. Tease and tantalize her with the possibilities of things to follow, whetting her anticipation for more. This form of sex play can be communication at its finest! This is communicating to your partner how very much you want to be one with them.
More: Wanna play hard to get? OK, close your lips and let him gently probe to try and gain access to the inside of your mouth, eventually allowing him in. Wanna be really hard to get? Once he is able to slip between your lips, let him then discover that your teeth are clenched. Let him probe with the tip of his tongue for a way past, and quickly open up and let him in.
More: As one or the other of your tongues back out, lightly use your teeth to scrape the surface.
More: Play tag and catch if catch can. Dart back and forth, in and around. Make up your own games on the fly as you play.
Even More: To hold your lover's tongue, apply suction to prevent him/her from slipping away.
Much More: Open your mouths as you touch each others lips and when you are very very turned on and breathing hard, or, hardly catching your breath. I mentioned in the original article that kissing can be a breathtaking experience. This is one of those moments.
**Forget what I said above about me not liking to exchange "gases", because if there is ever a time to loose your breath, let it be with the one you love. Let him/her capture your breath as you exhale through your mouth while your body tingles and quivers, perhaps as your partner caresses your body with an ever so light touch of the fingertips.
These various styles of French kissing can be lusty, passionate, playful, a serious turn on--whatever the two of you choose to make of them. Explore, learn together, and above all else, have fun as you convey your innermost desires to one another.
"Eskimo kisses"--
These are the "kisses" Mommy and Daddy used to give us as children where we rub noses. Do not overlook these whimsical and playful expressions of affection when making out. Use them as a sign of affection or as a response to a funny or enjoyable emotional moment. Forgot how? Just lightly rub the tips of your noses back and forth against each other's two or three times.