[Brandye]

Women have no nerve endings in the vagina. No, we do not feel it whether or not a condom is involved. We get the feeling of depth drom the other muscles and organs being displaced by the thrusting. We can sometimes feel the pumping against our outsides and with a good imagination, some women will say they can feel it hitting them in vagina. I have had that sensation even with knowing the facts.

We do feel stuff leaking out of us. It is possible that some semen leaked out around the opening as your penis softened a bit. She would feel that. She could also have been particularly well lubricated (this often happens around ovulation) and it was her own juices she felt.

So with all this, she should be using vaginal spermicide (Jelly, foam, film, suppository) in addition to the condom. The primary reason for "condom failure" is semen leaks out around the open end of an otherwise good condom.