[BTDTWoman]

I think the poster wants permission to be sexually active with aother girl despite not feeling a strong attraction to her and being inexperienced

So long as you are willing and able to be honest with her about what you want and how you feel about her, do whatever feels good and right to both of you. You are only 15; you are not supposed to be an expert at having sex with boys or girls.

If you want to do the things you wrote about because it arouses you and feels good, do it. Don't do anything that feels creepy or weird. You can stop at any point if it isn't working for you.

Be realistic about the possibility that she may tell other friends about it and you may get labled in a way that you don't want, at least not right now. Teens tend to spend a lot of energy talking about and judging other teens' sexual behavior.