[BTDTWoman]

All of my female partners strongly prefer cunnilingus to penetration with objects, vibrators, or fingering. Beginners might try kissing and fondling before striving for rocketship orgasms.

If you are going down on her for the first time ever, don't dive right in as may be too intense for both of you. Start with getting a good look at her vulva so you know where everything is - it may be very different than your vulva. Kiss, stroke, and nibble the mound and thighs.

When you are both ready for the next step maybe not the first times, use your tongue. Don't stop until she really wants you to stop. Relax - you don't have to be the best or get it perfect to give her pleasure.