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It's not about the length. It's about the circumference of the vaginal opening, how pliable it is, how relaxed she is in the moment--and, whether or not there is a hymen. And, that's not all. She also needs to be well lubricated, either naturally or in addition with a lubricant. Your condom should also be well lubricated with a commercial lubricant. Lubricated condoms don't do much so do not use them as a substitute for a real lube.

Learn whether she has a hymen or if it has eroded, and if so how much.
Use the Woman Superior position for the following reasons:
* She knows where your penis is, where her vaginal opening is and easily bring P to V.
* She can position the tip of the penis against the hymen or between it and the vaginal wall for easier penetration
* Use pressure to attempt penetration. She can do this to suit. Never polk, shove, or jab.
* By using this position she can govern the speed of penetration, depth, and the rate of any stroking
* If at first you do not succeed--try, try, another day.

Have your girlfriend read the "Am I Ready For Sex" article.

I recommend strongly that the two of you read through the relevant articles on making out, etc., listed in the Index, before moving forward.