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Most women do not orgasm because they refuse to permit it. They tense up, they think that sex is dirty, they hold their breath, they fear the loss of control, they select and stay with unskilled lovers, they think he'll not respect them. they think they will not respect themselves. Sex begins in the brain and it is what's in the brain that will wreck any chance of having great sex.
I have taught many men exactly how to caress the G-Spot with the head of their penis - it isn't that hard. Once they find it with their hand, they can find it with their glans. Gentlemen, in the male superior position sit somewhat upright, add a touch of lube, and go in just shy of halfway then rock back and forth pressing upwards on the vagina. Watch for her reaction - you'll have the spot when you see her show signs of "nervousness" or "excitement". Lubrication is required for best effect.
Next comes the posterior Fornix, and all of you ladies who like it deep and hard - that's exactly what he's stimlating when he does that. Instead of sitting upright in the male superior position, scoop her shoulders up in your arms, go in deep beneath her cervix and press downward while thrusting - gently at first at moderate speed then switching gears to fast and hard as she orgasms.
If your lover has sufficient control, he can alternate between G-Spot and Posterior fornix stimulation several times making sure you'll have as many orgasms as you will allow yourself to have.
For those women who require clitoral stimulation as well try doing 69 with one man while another, more skilled man, comes in from behind and alternates between stimulating your G-Spot and Posterior Fornix with his glans. Now THAT is a trip!
Last edited by EvilEvilKitten; 08-10-2007 at 08:17 AM..
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