[Brandye]

Achieving our orgasm is much more complicated and difficult than for a man. He MSUT have an orgasm to make us pregnant; we need not have orgasms to get pregnant. The way we are built, his entire organ in enveloped in an organ whose only purpose is to hold it until he ejaculates. Our clitoris is an anatomical side note that may or may not be properly stimulated in penetration and thrusting. The G-Spot: although I have "found" mine, we do not even know what it is. Very few women ever actually experience G-Spot stimulation; not many even try. Fair? No, but nature is trying to propogate the species not give women pleasure.

Half of us require additional stimulation. I am in that group and have a very satisfying sex life but little to no expectation that I will take him in and enter bliss. There is one position I really like because it allows either of us to add clitoral stimulation while I have him in there.

You never say whether or not you reach orgasm alone, only that your clitoris works just fine. If you can reach orgasm alone, you can teach him what to do to get you there. It may or may not include penile thrusting. He needs a shot of reality - women ARE different.