all potential objects will need to be very very clean. look around the house, you should be able to find some insertable objects. northernpixie is right though. sometimes the object isn't as ideal once you actually try to use it. our rule is nothing bigger than his member, any bigger and it probably won't work.
talk to her about it, let her know how much it'd turn you on and that you would never use anything that could cause harm of any kind. seriously though, try the ice if she's agreeable. it's clean, nothing left over once you're done and it feels
soooo good. we've also filled a condom with water, froze it, peeled condom off and had an ice dildo - lots of fun! only drawback was that it was too cold for him to hold onto for long. if talking to her doesn't work you could let her read this thread. good luck!
