[Brandye]

It is a fantasy and vien the cricumstances, I am with Doc. Action on this fantasy would rapidly become painful for several people.

Accepting that you are convinced you have bi- leanings, you will be amazed how many women are receptive. Many have posted here expressing these feelings. One report I have read indicates that nearly a third of all married women have at least one same sex encounter. I personally know several married women who also have girlfriends.

Act on that desire if you wish but not the person you are focused on. I am actively bi- and find nothing strange about the fantasy. She is a known bi-sexual and you likely feel some reticence about approaching others.