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Originally Posted by Odysseus
Okay now, I just want to hear your opinion on my case...
Me and my girlfriend are deeply in love (we’ve been together for about 1 year now), we want to get married and have children one day and you know... live a happy life together. We're still young, (17 and 16 years old) but in the future.
We’re really careful on sex things. I don’t mean we don’t want to have sex but we’re just aware of a change of an accident (mostly because our parents keep reminding us about that...). We love kissing and hugging and caressing each other and we’ve already been naked together but done only something like foreplay. We really enjoyed it.
I’m about 180cm tall and she’s about 150cm. When I was fingering her I did it only with one finger. I tried inserting two fingers and managed to get them in but her vaginal opening felt so tight.. I asked her if I’m hurting her and she said she’d prefer one finger. I’m not sure if I was too fast putting two fingers in or something. I think her vagina is about 3.7 - 4 inches deep.
Now, here’s what I’m afraid of: is my penis too big for her? My penis is about 6 inches in erection. Do you think her vaginal opening will get wide enough for my penis? Is there a change we could have fully satisfying sex life some day?
Everything in our life together seems perfect now… I hope so much this one important thing won’t be a problem… If it seems bad, how could I make things better?
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From what Brandye has said.... 95% of vaginas can take 95% of penises. The only problem comes when the guy is VERY well endowed... like 10+ inches.
Yes she will be able to accomodate you.. I mean babies do come from there!
It just takes getting used to... we are all very tight before we have any sexual contact... fingering prepares us for intercourse, working up from 1 to 2 fingers.
You just have to make sure she is properly wet and properly aroused, that she is relaxed and not tense... this will cause difficulty in insertion.
There are plenty of threads about this under the New to sex forum when some couples have to attempt sex 2-3 times b/f the guy can even get his penis in... just due to the fact that the girl is so nervous and tense.. the vagina isn't letting anything pass through.