Does anyone have any tips on how to get your gal to do this? I'd like to do it together with mine but she is real shy about it. We have done it on the phone with good results a few times in the past. I was thinking maybe I could have her start by touching herself while we're making love, with me inside her...she is just SO self-conscious about it. I have done it in front of her...well actually behind her since she was sitting on my face while I gave her oral once...and it was a turn-on for us both.
She used to think (and still does to some extent) that her vagina was ugly and misshapen...someone, I think her damn mother (arrg, what a horrid thing to say to your child), told her that once when she was little and it stuck...but over the past few years of constantly telling her how beautiful she is,
everywhere, and that every woman's vagina is uniquely beautiful...and that hers is ESPECIALLY beautiful...she has finally I think started to realize that. So you can see I want to make her feel comfortable and loved, cherished and celebrated. And yeah, perhaps most of all, I want her to feel SEXY.
And of course our relationship benefits from all of this. So any tips on how to make this mutual thing happen would be GREAT! Thanks!
