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Originally Posted by Shorty43
OK, so this won't be the most helpful advice, but it is from a female's point of view. *Anyway, when you are fingering a girl there isn't much technique in my opinion. *I love it when a guy does it to me and I guess what gets me going is more than one finger and a circular type motion and then there is the occasional massage you can give her at the same time in the spot right between her vagina and anus. *But, every girl it different and is stimulated differently. *My best advice is don't read all those articles on fingering and assume what one guy says works is the way to go. *Listen to your girlfriend and she'll tell you if she likes what you are doing. *Play around, your fingers move in many ways. *As for oral sex, I think you need to do your own thing and listen to see what your girlsfriend enjoys the most. *I'm not a huge fan of giving oral sex so I don't really get much of it and that is fine by me. *sorry I can't be of more help, but I know that when a guy does something and I'm enjoying it I'm sure to let him know because I want him to keep going and I think most girls are the same way, it is a somewhat selfish internal mechanism females have.
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so what do u do if she is not a vocal person. i took my girl to a special place and in the hot tub we we fingering and she started to cry telling me it was good tears. but never let me know until she started to cry. how can u tell. i love her and comforted her but still done know how to tell