Hey everyone,
My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year. Our sex life is great and we love one another and hope to be together for a VERY long time. The deal is, she is perfectally fine with our sex life, but she just wonders what it would be like to be with another guy. (She had only two previous partners, both having their problems; One being crooked and the other [one time] small and coming within a minute.) I don't blame her or resent her about feeling that either. I wonder once in a blue moon about the what if too, usually she forces me to lol.
But my situation is: We've talked about experimenting with a 3some for quite awhile and recently we may have found a person wanting to. The deal is, it's a guy. I said yeah. Basically cause I'm bi-curious (she knows..she is too) and I find this guy extremely attractive. We aren't sure if he's bi or not. But we think he is by his tendancies and the fact him and I played twister and he got hard
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What I ask of you guys is, what's the best way about doing this? I know...let things flow. But how do we go about the guy on guy thing? I don't exactly wanna jump on him w/o knowing if he's interested...and i don't wanna ward him off by asking him straight out...he'd be nervous too, cause I know he's never been with a guy (nor have i). My gf has suggested after we get into things, that she tell us to play. So yeah, if anyone has any comments, please do tell.
Thanks!