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If I were going to try and have a threesome, while in a serious relationship (witch I have thought about, but would never do), here are some things I think would help it go smoothly:
1. Hire a professional: That way you can be fairly sure, that the third party is not interested in pursuing something more than sex. Most people I know that have had threesomes, have done it with a friend, which potentially can ruin two relationships.
2. Go away: Go on vacation or even drive a few hours to a motel. That way if things go badly (or even if they don't) you can literally leave the situation behind you. You don't want to imagine your sweetheart f-ing someone else, every time you see your couch.
3. Have rules: The more specific the better! Go through every scenario, you can think of. You don't want to find your self shocked and hurt when, lets say, your sweetie is doing something that you won't do, with someone else.
4. Don't commit: Agree that ether one of you, at any time can back out, and be backed up by the other.
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