[Chris88]

Hi everyone

As a bisexual male anal sex is probably something that will come up in one relationship or another, but having never done it I have a major problem...

The few times Ive tried pleasuring myself anally, its immensely painful....
Ive tried tips and tricks that Ive read on sites similar to this, and Ive asked a few people for advice to try and make it less painful, but to no avail!
I don't understand what Im doing wrong but 1 finger is the most I can get up there, and once I try to pull it out its pretty bad >.< The same goes for any movement once its up there. The only part that doesnt hurt is sliding it up in the first place. Any larger objects or more than one finger is just way too much.

Ive tried relaxing and doing it, I always use lube but....I really don't understand it!

Does anyone know whats wrong with me/what Im doing wrong and how I can fix it? Id hate to say no to a potential boyfriend simply because "its too painful"