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It sounds as if she is not enjoying sex for a reason, this is something she would only know. But if she is getting wet, she is aroused. The pain or uncomfortable sensation she is experiencing is more due to not relaxing and enjoying you touching her. Why she is not really enjoying it? Perhaps she is not comfortable yet with her own sexuality. She has said; she does not want to have sex (inadvertently after the first few times you did), it hurts when you attempt to insert a finger, oral feels weird, and touching her makes her too sensitive. All added up? She is not ready.
What to do? Skip the sexual part (put it off for a while) and just spend time with her and see what's happening in your relationship. Perhaps then she will shed some light on what she is feeling.
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