[RonnieB223]

I think you are right last night I spent about and hour and a half just rubbing her back and shoulders, and so on. Then I Touched her lightly for a bit afterwards. But then as soon as I started to even touch down there she complained it hurt, but I don't think it hurts as much as the fact that shes just so sensitive.

I was being really careful and gentle and I was taking it slow, she was pretty wet at this time, but it didn't seem as though she herself was turned on. Then once I actually inserted a finger it just got worse. I like to give oral, and I have given it to her, but she says she doesn't like it. She says it feels weird.

I've tried some of the things that I've read on this website and it seems to me that she just can't be turned on, at least by me. I have gotten into her head before but I can't seem to do it now, I don't know whats changed in the now almost two years we've been together, it just saddens me deeply.

I know she can orgasm, I've made her come, and I know she masturbates occasionally. So I don't know where this leaves me.