This post is a partial Index of Sex Ed. informational essays. If you have questions about love, romance and the how-tos of sex, and are uncertain where to find information or do not wish to search each of the Forums, here are the links--all in one place.
Important posts are called
"Sticky posts" because they never move from the top section of a particular Forum where the information is kept readily at hand.
There are many informational Sticky post
articles that have been written by Brandye, Dancingdoc2, and others, so that people can obtain answers to the most asked questions and concerns without having to ask by writing yet another in a long string of recurring posts that have been asked and answered many times over. In addition, two search engines are accessable from the blue Nav. bar. Various articles are also often referenced by members of the community answering a question posted in a thread.
The following links are a listing of relevant
Sex Ed. articles by Dancingdoc2, EvilEvilKitten, and Brandye, in no particular order:
OF CONCERN TO BOYS/MEN
For Boys Only- A Matter of Size (Regarding your penis)
ERECTION problems
Top Line: Erections come and erections go. A penis seemingly has a mind of its own.
There are generally three concerns fellas have regarding erections:
Boys and Masturbation / Got questions?
OF CONCERN TO GIRLS/WOMEN
For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm?
The Anatomy of the Female "O", Answered by Brandye & Dancingdoc2 & Inspired by Godiva
SUGGESTIONS FOR DATING
DATING--Rules: how to and how not to
DATING--The Art and Science of Asking and Doing, contributed by Dancingdoc2, Sera300, and EvilEvilKitten
Exclusivity vs. Dating Around, including replies by EEK and others
A COUPLES GUIDE TO MAKING OUT
The Beginning-
FOREPLAY: The Prequel and Sequel
Making Out--Knowing How Far To Go
KISSING & CARESSING--a young person's guide to EXPLORATION
(Major revision added 12/28/07 to Part Two: "Kissing-beyond the basics--")
Beyond Beginning-
Shyness / Confidence / First time issues
Pleasing her orally for the first time
This article includes additional insight and information by Brandye, EvilEvilKitten, and Dancingdoc2:
The First Steps toward Real Intimacy
Chapter One in a series
(Scroll down to read each chapter along with readers' comments):
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of Humping
Chapter Two:
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of G-spot massage
Chapter Three:
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of Making Out, FIRST
This chapter has a section on "Implied Consent" and "boundaries" regarding making out and how far to go.
NOTE: Frequently, and depending upon the nature of a poster's question, Doc recommends the person read Chapter Three, first, and Chapter One, second--then the others in turn.
Chapter Four:
MORE: From bungling student to graduating Lover Cum Laude
Chapter Five (also has its own separate link):
HELP! S/He is more EXPERIENCED! To which I say:
For Men and Women Only- Breasts and Play
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
What to do when the Clitoris becomes too sensitive, by Dancingdoc2, Brandye, and, others
Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation
"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.
Male / Female Sexual Behavior--If I like certain things does this mean I'm Gay?
Advanced Information-
The KIVIN Method of performing Cunnilingus, answered by Brandye, EEK, and Dancingdoc2
This includes an excellent video tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of integrating anal stimulation and oral stimulation, bringing this exercise to a new level! (Revised video links: 10/05/09)
SEX e.g. INTERCOURSE
I'm Ready for SEX! (or am I?) I really want to do it.
I (we) need help getting started... & inspired by sprtskhne33
What Can I/We Do To Prepare For First Time Intercourse?
PART 2--Another view of the same question.
A Boy's Concern For Making the First Time Successful and Fulfilling
What is a "Safe Word"? Choosing & Using...
SHACKING UP
I think we are ready to live together!!
We frequently hear about people living together who later find that one, the other, or both are not happy living together. Similarly, we frequently read a post in which a couple is contemplating moving in together and looking for a suitable residence. Here is an initial Check List.
Please look at the top section of every Forum for all of the Sticky posts. You just never know which article might have the information you are looking for. Often a bit of time spent on a search will provide an answer in a fraction of the time it takes to write a post and wait for others around the world to reply.
A
word or phrase search of all of the posts on all the Forums can also yield valuable information in a fraction of the time it takes to write what is often yet another "me too" post that has been asked and answered many times before. Please spend a few minutes before authoring a post to look through the many threads for the answer to your question or concern. There are two search engines accessable from the blue nav. bar. Many in the community love to contribute by replying to posts, yet it is very exasperating to see the same questions pop up daily or at least frequently, each expecting an original and sometimes time consuming reply.
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