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Old 05-26-2007, 02:10 AM
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Masturbation is a continuous ongoing activity. The male of the species masturbates primarily for these reasons:
* To relieve pent up stress and sexual tension
* For the pure enjoyment of it all

Both are separate and apart from achieving a climax through lovemaking even though the net results are the same.

Masturbate as frequently as you want. If you try to do it more times a day than your body can tolerate, your system will simply "cry uncle" and refuse to respond for several hours. In order to fully recharge your body, you have to wait 24-48 hours. Of course you can masturbate sooner, however, subsequent climaxes will be weaker and less enjoyable.

This leads us to the next situation we must contend with--management. You can choose to endure a certain increase in stress in order to have a more powerful climax, later; or, you can relieve the degree of pent up stress at the expense of having a powerful orgasm by masturbating sooner rather than later.

It has been stated that 90% of the male population masturbates and the other 10% lie about it. That being the case, how can doing it be the sign of a looser?

> I feel like a loser. I mean its a feeling that when I have not achieved anything in my career so far, no woman will come near me

What follows is a thread that I've been responding to for the past couple of days. Please read through it and substitute esteem and confidence for looser.

http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/marr...nt_so_bad.html
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