First off:
ENJOY WHAT YOU'RE DOING
This is your chance to give pleasure to your man.
Be enthusiastic about it.
It's time to let your inner sex kitten out and play.
Be powerful, be strong, be sexy. Look at him in the
eye while you're pleasuring him. Enjoy the fact that
right at this moment, he' hand over the keys to the
castle.
This is a powerful act for a woman and the time when
a man is at his most vulnerable.
SAVOR it.
THE WETTER, THE BETTER
ALL Guys agree. The more saliva you use, the more
enjoyable the oral lovin'.
Try and keep him nice and moist from the tip on down.
This is NOT the time to act like Bree on
"Desperate Housewives" and be anally neat.
Get MESSY.
Keep a glass of water by the bed to keep your mouth
moist. Or even experiment with some fun foods
like whipped cream if you want. (I personally stay
away from honey... it's a pain in the butt to
clean up...)
Just remember, you are simulating a very warm,
moist, snug place...
LEND A HELPING HAND, OR TWO
Do not be afraid to use your hands, especially
if you don't have a Linda Lovelace deep throat.
Your hand should be a nice continuation of your
mouth. Even add a gentle twist of the wrist to add
to the pleasure.
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BE BALLSY
The testicles are your friends, ladies. Treat them
as such.
Greet them warmly. Cradle, cup, stroke his
balls.
The number one complaint I hear from the guys
is that the ladies forget that they are a package
deal. Three's Company.
REMEMBER WHAT YOU'RE HANDLING
There's a fine line between being firm and
strangulation.
Be mindful of the amount of pressure you're using.
Try and think what YOU would like, if the tables
were turned. You're NOT strangling a dead chicken.
And if you're not sure about the pressure, then
that leads me to my next pointer...
DON'T BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR COMMENTS
Don't just HOPE for the bast.
If your man doesn't seem over the moon...
(What? Is he in a coma or something???)
Then feel free to ask him if there's anything
you could improve on, anything else he
likes, what he wants more of, or less...
The whole idea is to GIVE PLEASURE, as I'm
SURE he will be doing in return.
Communication can only make it better.
And one last note for those of you with
newer partners.
Whatever you decide is the "happy ending,"
know your man.
Not to blow the mood (bad pun intended),
but you still have to be responsible for
your health.
There is a reason prostitutes use condoms
for oral sex. If your man HAS NOT been
tested. you could be playing BJ roulette.
Think before you drink.
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Happy sex!