[RonnieB223]

Hey guys and gals, how are you all doing? I found this website a few days ago and I think it is great. Anyways onto my question.

Okay, I am 21 years old, I have been dating my girlfriend(she is 18) for over a year now, since early September 2005. I love this girl, she is my second girlfriend, though my first real steady girlfriend but I have gone out on dates with others, some with a few second dates as well.

We had sex a month and a half or two months after we started dating. We did it a few times and every week or two after that. Then after about a month she had started to not want it any more because it hurt her. So for a few months we had it occasionally, like every month or two. All during this time I was telling her to see her gynecologist. Eventually she got in to see her. She got checked out and the doctor found nothing physically wrong with her. The doctor recommended better lubrication, more foreplay etc. We tried all those options and nothing seemed to work. So I figured it was me, so after a few more months passed I suggested that she allow me to play with her more frequently so that I could maybe work on it and figure out her body and what I should do.

We tried that a few times but I never really got to far, or to actually try fingering or a vibrating dildo that I bought for her. So next she suggests that we wait for her to try and initiate any sexual activity, and that is where I currently am. I am not sure exactly what to do because I feel as though I have tried to help and tried just about anything, I am willing to hear and discuss with her any suggestions any of you have. I also fear that it may never come. I have hung through this with her for a while now, and I am saddened by the feeling that I am almost at the end of my rope as far as not being able to have a more healthy sex life.

*Edit* We were also each other's firsts. *Edit*

--Ron

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