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yeah, I didn;t read all of this, but when I'm getting a hand-job: here are soem things that really improove the experience:
1. If the guy's breatning changes, do not change your technique. You can feel free to speed up a little bit (not too much at once) but don't slow down, stop, or change position in any way, shape, or form.
2. Some guys (me included) like to thrust with their hips when they near orgasm. Don't be surprised, just keep going; it;s another sin that you're doing it right.
3. Always, always, always use some form of lubrication. Wet your ENTIRE HAND (palm and finger tips) with either a water-based lubricant, slaiva, or vaginal juices (don't let him "inside" without protection, just get your own fingers wet). If there are either unavalable, or there aren't enough of them, you can use a gentle bar soap such as dove or ivory, but be warned: it stings the guys urethera aftwewards, itusing that method too much will dry out his skin. The most important thing is: dry hands will cause chafing which is ridiculously uncomfortable and unsexy.
4. (this is mostly for amy4stewie) Girls, this may not be super-fun for you, but your boyfriend will most likey return the favor. If you're worried he won't, use your sexy voice and tell him that he'll "have to earn it."
The thing about manually stimulating your partner is that it's for them. For this small part of your sex life at least, knowing that you are pleasing your partner should be what makes you happy.
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