[Brandye]

I am a bi- woman and so is my partner. For much of my life I was one way or the other for a few years at a time. Now we each need a little male outlet once in a while. Neither of us have ever divulged this to male partners. None of their business. If I were to marry (or if Eva were to marry again), that would be it and the outside interests would have to be gone - I think. I could not live that lie and would not discuss it with him. Eva and I have known one another since we bagan school and there are no secrets because she is another woman and we have been friends so long.