I like to receive for pretty much the same reasons you listed. If a guy is hung enough to massage the prostate that's about as good as it gets, at least for me. I like topping too, but can't stay hard with a condom so that leaves out 99% of my opportunities. My partner is the only one I'd bareback with and he doesn't like bottoming.
I don't use plugs, and I don't have any dildoes anymore. I used to before I was in a relationship, but they were cheap ones and too hard. Like doing yourself with a tree trunk! Ouch.
The nice ones are so damned expensive. One of these days I'll splurge.
