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I am bi, and have always considered myself more lesbian than straight but still bi. And I fell madly in love with my fiance, I love sex with him, but I had to sit him down and explain that the fact is I like women a LOT but I was willing to be monogamous but I was still going to look. And that's fine with him and in fact we have similar taste in women (except he is attracted to me and I wouldn't be ;-) ) but the other day I was out with my mom and I checked this guy out and he checked back and we had a little eye thing. No big deal, and it's the kind of thing that I have done with women within eye-shot of him, but I felt so guilty and I told him. He laughed and said if it were a girl I wouldn't have felt bad and he doesn't see a difference. He doesn't care who I am attracted to, he just cares that I am faithful. And that is all that matters.
On a side note, I hate when people assume that if you're bi you must always have a supply of sex both gay and straight. I am a person and I am in a relationship with another person and that is it, just because I like girls doesn't mean I have to be having sex with one. I also think that somoan men are hot, but my fiance is white, doesn't mean I keep a somoan lover on the side.
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