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Say Hey
Although your life and mine before marriage are very different, the result it is exactly the same, it is amazing how the things you wrote are so close to what is happening to me. I don't know how this problems can last for so long.
I do not come from a religious background but my wife does, I was very used to pretty much have all the sex I wanted (with other gf's) while she grow up having very little experience. We did had sex before getting married, we only did it twice and it was bad, but we got married any way, at that time that didnn't seem to be an issue for me. She was (and still is) a very attractive woman, and we did get along fine, I was thinking that, eventually, things were going to get better in bed. But nothing chaged, it is almost 3 yrs now and sex is no were to be found. Suddenly I found myself on that point of acceptance that you talk about.
My guess is that Sera300 is right, this could be just resentment for all that time with no sex, perhaps counseling is the key, but is hard to break it to her like: "Hey you know?, I don't feel like having sex with you any more, why don't we try couseling? Lol It's so hard to say things like that to some one you care about.
I could just pretend, go and try to have sex with her whenever she is ready and just cum in five minutes and go to sleep but I don't want to be such a jerk ...
Thanks for the input every one ...
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