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yes broke back mountain is a good reference to this scenario cause it does take both scenarios.
A man who knew what his sexual needs and tastes were.
and a man who's sexual tastes were changed under the circumstance of falling in love with another man.
I was bringing this up not cause i think someone who is gay can actively choose not to be gay like the bible thumpers so naively push on people dumb enough to believe it....
iam more so bringing this up cause a lot of this conversation has sparked my interest in what is the typical reason for someone to fall into any category sexual preference category.... is it really always determined on your sexual desires.
couldn't a women who has always sexually desired men still fall in love with a women and find her desires to be met in a new way.
I guess your response answers the question in all and every scenario and that is simply will always be a void between falling in love and sexual needs/desire.
The story of the movie chasing amy goes against this idea, the main charector falls in love with a lesbian and she vise versa falls in love with him cause its not about gender or the sexual acts its about finding real love......
and well i guess that doesn't matter if the story were to have a sequel where 12 years later that same women who followed her heart needs sexual satisfaction from a women to be truly happy.
its kind of scary to think that you can be in love for 10+ years with one person and then find him/herself or even yourself unsatisfied with what their genders sexuality offers them/you.....
I almost feel it as an insult to judge either party in being naive enough to say this is something that would never happen to me... on either end of the spectrum
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