[dancingdoc2]

I do not know how common this is; however, given what women grow up hearing and believing from parents her reaction is not unexpected.

May I suggest that the two of you read this Sticky message together paying particular attention to these two parts:

Breasts and nipples "turn on" and become reactive when a woman is highly aroused. Giving the area too much attention too early can be distracting and non-productive. Admire, touch, and gently caress them in passing during the early phase. Wait until she is very turned on before giving one or both your full attention.

NOTE: Some women find that breast play works anytime along their arousal curve. Some women will stop their man as their climax approaches because to continue is too distracting to them. Likewise, learn whether or not breast play can continue right on through the triggering of a climax or is better if all caresses end sometime before.

Nipple stimulation for the majority of both genders seems to augment an orgasm and perhaps help to bring one on, rather than to have any direct connection with the orgasm itself.

I suggest that if she has an open mind to new ideas and concepts that she read as much as possible on erogenous zones, and breast play in general. You can also discuss this in an informative not a confrontational manner to see if she is willing to accept a new purpose for her breasts. If not, then you'll have to work around them.