[madeye]

She considers herself to not being narrow minded based on sex.

She is very much big into having passionate love.

She went through a period where she had doubts that she would find a man that has the capability to equate the love she desired.

So she went had a small phase of being very open minded to dating women. She never found any sexual satisfaction from a women beyond a drunken make out session or a sober cuddling session.

so from the information she has shared with me i believe its more so about being into the idea of love having no gender.... than it is about having sexual urges tempting her to specifically act out on. She wants the person she loves to satisfy her sexual needs and no one else.

she still has bi-sexual fantasies that she says she has no desire to act out..... she has also mentioned other heterosexual fantasies that she also only considers to be fantasy. so far i have found no reason to doubt her credibility or honesty about any of this.

To be honest i find her perspective of love having no gender to be very uplifting and inspiring, the idea that a lot of people could miss out on an amazing relationship just cause of a fear or a close minded attitude it could be the same gender.

So maybe lets branch this off to another debate. Should gay and straight people draw those lines...... if you have seen the movie chasing amy you know where im going with this.

Do you believe someone that is predominately straight can fall in love with a same sex partner and make it work..... and vise versa?

I guess i want to throw caution to the wind and discuss to what degree are we straight or gay.....? what do you think is the ratio that these labels are circumstantial to the person you fall in love with or based solely/simply on sexual preference and desire?