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Originally Posted by Brandye
My response is selfish and demonstrates the double standard. I am an actively bisexual woman. My primary partner and I each get a little penis time a few times a year. The men are all on our "approved list." So, we are both bi- and actively so.
BUT, there is no way I would want to share a man with other men. The sociological studies of bi-sexual male behaviour indicate promiscuity and casual hookups. Bi-sexual women tend to have a, or at least fewer, partners who are better known to them. This is much less risky behaviour.
Flame away! I shall not change your mind and you shall not change mine.
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I have no intention of changing your mind, just commenting on your stated position.
I find it a little amusing that you appear to be in a primary lesbian relationship, but you and your partner "get a little penis" now and then. Yet you're judging that to be safer behavior than bi-men you don't know, who may or may not "statistically" have more partners than you do. I appreciate your medical background and you're well read but what is the point of your post other than to somehow promote how superior bi-women are and slam bi-men when you engage in the same behavior (no matter how well you "screen" your partners)? Safe sex is monogamous sex. Everything else is playing the odds.
My understanding of the point of this thread was whether you would be comfortable being in a relationship with a partner with a bi-sexual past, not the pros and cons of continuing bi-sexual behavior while in the relationship such as you're discussing.
You did admit your post was selfish and a double standard. At least we're in agreement there.
(I will now put away my Zippo)