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a possibility
now then, has anybody perhaps considered the possibiltiy that they have the emotional maturity and desire to have sex. people are always coming out and giving their own reasons for people doint stuff. ptsd, bad parenting, lack of moral values, not knowing right from rong, sexual abuse at an earlier age, peer pressure, trying to be in with the crowd but nobody has ever said they could possibly just like sex. people are always saying how its rong at that age and how they arent ready for it, with all due respect what do these people know about the individuals involved and how they feel. the story now adays is one of kids maturing at an ever younger age, i know people who were ready to have sex, and did have sex at younger than 11. and its THEIR choice no one elses. parents think they have control over everything their children do and think you can influence everything they do. im sorry to say but you are very very rong. if people want to have sex, they will have sex. and you trying to remove this desire just strengthens it. in my opinion parents should indeed try promote waiting til a later age but support their decsion if they feel they are ready at whatever age. im completely certain when i say this but when parents get told what age their child first had sex their are years added on. believe you me. and im sure many of you were in that situation yourselves, deceiving your parents or others. i feel if that if they are ready than they should be allowed to have sex, and you should support that and promote the precausions they should take.
times have moved on from the no sex before marriage, the completely inncocent young girls and boys. and if yo dont like it its just tough. move on. cos there is nothing you can do about it
thanks for readin.
scott
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