[Brandye]

Well, welcome to womanhood! Our biological role is to extract semen and take into our own bodies. There is about a tablespoonful and of that half is absrobed through the vaginal walls and the other half drains out. Hence, the notorious "wetspot," source of many jokes.

It tickles as it runs out and the next trip to the loo with the putrifying juices of both running out smells bad.

The soultion: stop having sex!

On the orgasm issue, your g/f and I are the same. Only a quarter of all women typically reach orgasm through penetration and thrusting. Half of us need oral or digital stimulation. The other quarter simply do not have orgasms.

Do her first and then it does not matter how long you last. Although many of us are most receptive to a penis immediately after orgasm, we also tire of the thrusting rather quickly. Five to ten minutes is more than enough for me and much longer and the guy will find himself on the floor.