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Originally Posted by open man
ok, I'll bite too.
I am at a point in my life where my wife and I are opening our relationship and entertaining fantasies coming to reality. I have fantasied often of two women and myself, and now really starting to fantasize more on my wife myself and another male, a first it was just her being the center of attention with two males with no male/male exchange and the turn on for me was very high, and the turn for her also very high. Although recently, my fantasies have included some male/male exchange, mostly myself performing oral on him and usually through completion, meaning licking cum and swallow along with the help of my wife. Now I do not ever see face of male or desire to kiss a male, all i see is tight abs, tight ass, well defined shaved chest, and a good looking clean hard slightly larger than normal penis. Now this really turns me on, however when I see bi-porn where men kiss and perform oral where I see faces I do not get turned on at all. I don't feel bi-sexual yet I think of my turn on's and question it.
1. My question is I guess what is your opinion?
2. This one is simpler, do all gay man perform oral sex to completion? (swallow/licking cum)
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1. Well, I'd say that whatever fantasy you enjoy is fine. As for turning fantasy to reality... why not?? There isn't a "sex police" (at least not yet) to tell you that you have to do anything you don't want to do. If you decide to try it just be honest with a new "playmate" what you want to experience... and the fact that you might decide to opt out at anytime.
Actually, that's a basic rule for any three-way activity. The ground rules should be VERY clear to ALL parties.
2. No "all" of any group
always does anything. Some do. Some don't. Some do
sometimes. It's the way the world works.
HOWEVER... before taking anyone else's bodily fluid into your body, you should know that person VERY (VERY!!!!!!) well. To my knowledge, there have never been any conclusive cases of HIV/AIDS spread through oral sex... but why take the chance? There are other STDs that can be spread this way. They may not be as deadly, but again... why take the chance? Always remember to play safe.